There is a difference between having an opinion and being right. We are all entitled to an opinion and most of us would be very angry if our opinion was ignored. However, what is difficult to remember sometimes is that there is the possibility that firstly, we can be wrong and secondly, that majority rule can override this and you either have to accept that, or move on.
A lot of decisions are made by leaders and these are often not popular; I am thinking of the Church in this particular instance. Popular opinions are forcing change and whether or not the Church bends with these changes has to be down to the leadership of the Church. Sometimes as lay people we are not even involved in the decisions that are taken and our opinions aren’t sought in making changes, or if they are, these seem to be ignored.
It is hard to follow a religion that dictates so much to us especially if we don’t agree with what is happening. I am trying to hold onto my central faith and see various changes as peripheral to that and not important. Something was announced today in my church that I felt unhappy with: it was to do with the way the priest faces when saying Mass. I prefer the priest to face the congregation, but our priest prefers to offer Mass so that he has our back to us and towards the East. He has given good reasons for this but I think it is still a shame. Others agree with our priest.
We have to be humble and submit sometimes and try not to grumble and moan in the background, but it isn’t easy. I think this is why so many people fall away. We have to remember why we are there – it is for God – and not let anything else affect this.
God bless and may you cope with change!
Widows Mote 